little black immersion

two weeks ago before all these disasters, i.e. typhoons, earthquakes, tsunamis seen at the asia pacific region, i myself was way up north in ilocos for a weekend road trip with strangers. yes, literally. well we came from the same school but i only know three of them and little did i know there were more males and the females. it didn't really bother me since i'm always up for something new and exciting. i felt like i lived in the big brother house with unfamiliar faces to share a house with. it was just three days but i learned a lot specifically with the male species from that experience. 

there are lots of psychology books which i also read classifying women from men. but it's still different to know first-hand. i like to call it my 'little black immersion.' in an unfamiliar territory and people, i was on guard and quiet. i'm not shy or timid, i'm just observing the whole time. it's innate to me for people i first encounter with. you could just imagine the testosterone level in that kind of situation. 

for the women out there, i'll list my observations on how the male brain activity works and for the men, some women are not dumbfounded.. just so you know. (lol)

-- men checks out women. from her face down. how she dresses. how she carries herself. no conversation included just by seeing you. and yes they do picture you naked. did it ever occur to you why superman has x-ray vision? the more flesh a woman shows, the better ogling for them. no matter what the girl looked like as long as she flashes cleavage or not.

-- during conversations over alcohol, if there is a thing called girl talk.. guy talk includes the topic of basketball or any other sport, girls, cars, sex, girls, politics, sex, fantasies (but that wasn't included because i was there), their getting laid style, porn-like strip club joints, courting style, cool dude movies, did i say chicks? haha 

-- men are born competitive. they have to win. the reason why they like every kind of games. 

-- speaking of games, they like doing mind games to women. they will never say it straight to the point.

-- the more competitive a guy is, expect that he's more likely a playboy. most men have this napoleon complex where he needs to conquer and a chick is his conquest. 

-- when men get together, they see women as sex objects and testosterone level of the group rises having the 'i'm the man!' feeling. chauvinists pigs. 

-- unfortunately, men don't mature. it's grad school for god's sake but there's no effect. most single men enrolled to meet other single or not women. 

regardless of the educational trip, i enjoyed my immersion, being one of the boys.